I like the Phoenix metaphor. Crazy how some of our situations are so strikingly similar in many ways, yet the outcomes seem to be anyone's guess.

I have so much respect for you, Gordie. Your kids are so lucky to have you be their rock. Best of luck with the upcoming family stuff.

What are you thinking for Mother's Day gift? (I'm looking for ideas that don't involve shaking my wife til she comes to her senses...) smile

Me: 43 She: 43
Married 14 Together 20
D7 S6
Separation bomb Dec 2017
Reconciled 3 weeks later Jan 2018
Second separation bomb April 2018