Sjohn,

Sending lots of positive thoughts and encouragement your way buddy. May I ask if she articulated what prompted the D talk after you guys seemed to have turned a corner a few weeks ago?

This too has happened to me numerous times since December, but now I'm cautiously optimistic my W is out of her fog and is committed to making things right.

Like you, I think it's only natural that we have trouble keeping up the guard when they say the things we so want to believe...but self-preservation requires us to look out for ourselves first.


Me: 43 She: 43
Married 14 Together 20
D7 S6
Separation bomb Dec 2017
Reconciled 3 weeks later Jan 2018
Second separation bomb April 2018