I spoke with a L last week so I now have some understanding of what my rights are if we D. That put my mind at ease somewhat and made me less anxious about what a D would look like, at least from the financial side.

My W is still talking with the ex boyfriend, and she doesn't know that I know they are still talking. The feeling of betrayal at her likely being involved in an EA with an old flame is crushing. She swears they are just friends and there is nothing to worry about, but, isn't that all part of the script?

M: 50 W: 47
No kids together
M: 10 T: 11
BD #1: 12/14
R #1: 7/15
BD #2: 1/18
D Filed: 6/18/18
D Final: 01/28/19
Currently still in-house