The first thing I would do if I were you would be telling W to stop with the frivolous spending. Don't worry about hurting her feelings. She's cheating on you. Do you think she took your feelings into consideration when she started the A?...
Then pay no attention to her. Don't ask her questions about what she's doing. Don't follow her around the house. Take your son out to do things without her (go to the park, movies, zoo)...
And continue to GAL. It will help keep this all off your mind. Sounds like you got a good start with the rock climbing. Keep it up. Don't worry what she thinks about it. It's only for you...
I'm no expert, but these are a few things to start with.
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
