Ugh so true. Many people on these boards discourage another relationship. And i totally get why. Personally, i needed to wait i think it was a year post BD.
But if you are that.. (insert correct word) is there harm in casually dating someone? As long as your honest and upfront about your situation, and make sure it does not involve your son.
Seriously, i would avoid your ex lile she has the plague.
Im not going to just drop everything and hop in bed if she offered, or made it clear it was an option.
I am trying to date now. Considering how long our relationship was "dead" before i knew it, and the time since BD and separation, we haven't been intimate in almost a year. I'm 30, i have needs lol.
Im trying to date, but My life and S3 come first so finding time to do so is hard.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
