My Ex is with her 3rd OW...Her original affair like all others blew apart the basically second I stopped playing the game.
As for my turn around it I wish I could say it happned overnight but it was more of a slow awakening...
Phase 1 I just started faking it...I started going to the gym, going golfing, started dong new stuff and meeting new people. But I was faking.
Then I started noticing that the less I paid attention to WAW the more she would contact me. I wont lie I relished her calling me still. I still needed her validation. But slowly her calls started to feel like a nuisance. Then one day i found myself genuinley annoyed with her calls because they were interupting my "faking it...It was then I realized...I wasn't faking it anymore...I was genuinley HAPPY!!!
That small epihany opened the freaking flood gates....I started doing everything I ever wanted to do, I got back into martial arts, bought new a new Jeep, went on trips, climbed a mountain. I got Tattoos, I grew a beard, read books basically when i didnt have my kids I did whatever I wanted to do.
Phase 2.....to be COntinued
Me: 39 W: 38 S: 15 D: 12 D: 6 BD 8/15 NEED SPACE S 2/16 Divorced 4/17 and loving it, waw came back 12/17.....I declined
