My Scenario Pt.5 - Big D and Detaching the Monster

[OrangeK]

Great post from sandi!

Heck yes it was. GOLD.

And that was great interactions. I think your responses were perfect. I would continue with that. I definitly would not soften or show loving kindness in future responses.

She wont respect that and will feel like she has some good negotiating power that way.

I feel great about how things went yesterday. Keeping up that theme.
It definitely shows the difference in how she treated me when i was still begging. Like i said, she was fairly amicable until i set a boundary that didn't fit with exactly what she wanted. True colors right there. She's spent her whole life getting what she wants from her parents and men. she checked her purse and found my balls had vacated back to my person. She wasn't pleased. I hope she isnt able to keep composure in court when things dont go her way also, it will show the judge her true personality.

I dont think she hates you. I think she is self serving and a good negotiator for herself. Shes just trying to figure out what will work on you. Anger, blame, flirting, lies? Shes definitly dangerous so continue to keep your cool and ensure everything is documented.

Again I agree. I'll be curious to see if she changes tactics from bitterness, to kindness, to apologetic to flirty or just stays bitter. Its like a home science experiment at this point lol.

Best scenario is she finds you boring and has other men to focus her attention on.

That seems to be what shes doing, but everyone keeps saying shes still most likely keeping tabs on me.

Here is where I admit a bit of a weakness.
I still very much desire sex with her. If she chose that tactic i think i would find it hard to resist. I dont think it would instantly set me back to being in love with her, and i know id still know her true colors after the fact, but right now, id probably still go for it if she made it available. If im being honest.