Hi Cathy,

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I've been too busy focussing on H and have been ever since this all started last year. What do I say, how do I act, detach..and all that stuff focussing on H.



This is how I've been feeling about my little dd. I feel that I lost the whole past year. She was one when this started; she is now two and I don't remember much of the time in between. Sad. I've started to focus on her ALOT more now.

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my S and raise him as best as I can.




This, too, is now my goal.

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I've got plans for the rest of the week, have no idea what H is up to.




So what are your plans?

Minnie