Maika,

It's good to keep hearing of your progress! Does your wife know about your plan to file after year? I wonder how she'll react when you initiate the process? It'll be interesting to see if that's a wake-up call for her. It's too bad she's drifting along in life without seeking counseling for herself. At minimum you're a good role model for her and an awesome role model for your kids! That's amazing you went through depression because you'd never guess from all of your posts and how you're feeling now!