Yes in the beginning things feel like they are meeting at a break neck pace. Felt that way in my sitch too. She was working on her resume, looking for apartments, researching divorce. My head was spinning. Every time I snooped I found more info showing she was either already out of the MR or quickly on the way out.

Eventually things slow down and you feel like you are stuck. Even after my wife gave up on the job search. Gave up on the apartment (couldn't get one without a job) and eventually gave up on the D, suddenly it felt like we were in a place of limbo that we couldn't move past.

Brace yourself, being stuck in place vs. things moving fast is almost worse. Though none of it is fun. None of us signed up for this when we stood up before God and family and friends and recited vows of commitment.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018