I guess MLC isn't something that should have any timeline should it...each person is different. I know there are different stages and that each person navigates these stages differently.
And for my H not having any childhood issues...yah I know better than to believe him when he says he doesn't have any! H has huge childhood issues, but I will not bring them up nor point them out.
I have looked at my childhood issues and learned from them. It was hard to look back at some of the things I had done, the shame I felt, but that shame, that pain is gone. My past is history, there is nothing I can do to change anything and I accept it as part of me.
My H will have to make the decision as to whether he's staying or going on his own, I will not ask or bring it up.
