Sometimes, like at the end of Shawshank Redemption, we have to crawl thru a river of chit to come out clean on the other side. This thing we are going thru is polishing us into the men (and women) that God intended us to be. It's probably not what he intended us to have to endure, but it is how it is. You are doing you...you are being the best father and the best man you can be and that is God's will for you. When our wives emerge as that so-called Phoenix we will see if either one of us recognizes the other through each of our transformations. I say that because they are changing out of some unfulfilled need to make up for or change something about their past. We are forced to change to endure for our future. Maybe we survive together or maybe we survive apart, but I do know that we will survive.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
