Steve85, You're right, I need to remember that it is not the same. I just feel like everything is moving so quickly. I would have loved to discover the DB techniques before he actually moved out. I don't know if that would have made any more of an impact, but I would have at least had more contact with him and he could see my GAL. I know it is for me, but it is nice to know that they can see it too.
I am still working on detaching, it has only been 5 days since he moved out, so everything is still so fresh.
Thanks for your input.
Married- 1y8m Together- 7.5y M- 37 H- 31 S- 4 months not wanting to work on things bomb- 4/15/18 left home- 5/5/18 Moved in with OW a week after leaving
