I think her getting served with D papers might be something that would snap her out of it. That stuff just got real. I think right now she thinks she can still just turn on the charm and reel you back in whenever she wants to.
It's possible, but I doubt it. Who knows though. She's gonna have to walk through fire for any chance of R with me. I tried. She didn't want to. She left me 5 years ago after 5 years of M for 6 months doing the same thing. This isn't something I want to go through every 5 years. And it's gonna take A LOT to convince me that it wouldn't happen again...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
