I promise you that she would be worse if you had another woman. And trust me, she is keeping tabs on you. She has her ways. Her EX must have gotten very wise to her and figured good riddance.
Sandi,
In what ways do you think she is keeping tabs? What makes you so sure she is? She very much seems to want nothing at all to do with me. Which is fine.
We are blocked from each other on social media, and i cant imagine where she would get word of mouth news, as we have been socially separated quite well. Back in Jan she was still definitely keeping tabs on me, asking me who i was spending time with, if i was dating girl X or Y, i would see her name pop up as viewing my IG account. This all stopped abruptly when the TRO hit. I honestly hope she isn't keeping tabs, I want her to leave me alone, but you seem to feel this is a common trait, especially considering her "possessiveness". Her and the EX didnt talk for a while, then she crept in asking friendly temp check stuff (i learned this from talking to him afterwards), i dont think she ever felt she had an opportunity to take advantage of anything during those temp checks, he was living on the other side of the country, still does, so it wouldn't have borne fruit at all no matter what, he just wasn't local. She had asked him to coffee when he was back here visiting family, and he said no. They were on friendly terms, and i know she reached out to him the Christmas after WW and I were married, it was a "Oh me and Orange have been watching this TV show, i remember we used to watch that together a lot" EX's current wife told me
Id love your input on my first conversation with her in three months i posted yesterday too, if you get some time.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
