This is a non linear process

The more you can separate your own healing process the better

Great you are not watching and reacting to her every move

That is exhausting and fruitless

How is your GAL

How are your friendships

How is your spirit


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving