Originally Posted By: sandi2
Gee, if she didn't contact you, we'd probably never hear from you........b/c you would be move on with your life. One text, and whamo it has you at a lost to what to do? Chris, I've told you previously that she does this to keep you emotionally attached to her. When are you going to believe me?


Here's the respond:

Don't like that one?^^^^^^ How about......."Hell no!"

It is way, way past time to tell her to take a hike. If you had done that when she cheated, she might have straighten up.........instead of still yanking your chain.


I think you need to hear the above again.

The answer to your question "how long do I stay dark?" is "until she stops treating you like [censored], and expresses remorse and an actual desire to fix things." Until then, ANY CONTACT you have with her is going to make your situation WORSE.


Just keep swimming