Rose, I've thought a lot about what you said, and you're right, kicking her out of my house for this isn't the best way to go. But I think I am done trying to save her from the consequences of her actions. I haven't seen her since the incident, but I sent her a text saying I'm still very hurt and upset, but I love her very very much and miss her. She sent me a heart icon in response.
There's not been anything else going on in the last week. W and I were supposed to sit down with a mediator, but W was too sick, so we rescheduled for today, but she's still too sick. Who knows if we'll ever get together?
Friends have been on me to update my wardrobe, so I went out with two different female friends and played human Ken doll, and picked up a few new threads.
One of them happened to be talking to W, who knew about it, and said "I've been trying to get him to do that for years." I'm not even going to begin to speculate about what that means.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
