I sometimes wonder if living separately would expedite the process. Then again being around each other keeps us front of mindish.
Separate seems like it could make it easier on the LBS so why wouldn't it be easier for WW/WAW? Who knows?
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.