I'm so sorry you're going through this, Gerda. God bless you for putting up with so much abuse, but I have to wonder how much you can take and for how much longer? You're definitely more patient than me. Big hugs to you.

J

Me: 43 She: 43
Married 14 Together 20
D7 S6
Separation bomb Dec 2017
Reconciled 3 weeks later Jan 2018
Second separation bomb April 2018