Quote: I think maybe your H and my H thought that OW would "fill them up" make them happy. And I really think the two of them are empty again. Your H is looking back at OW thinking she will do it... Gee, I think this could apply to many of us! I think it is just a matter of time, waiting for our H to "see" that the OW is not what they believe she is! For some reason they put the OW's on a pedestal; she is pretty, smart, nice figure, wonderful personality. NOT! Someday our H will wake up and see those OW's are human just like us. Will see they are not what they think they are.
You and I both know that they need to find themselves, and find that God shaped peg to fill that empty hole they have. Nothing else will fill them up. Yep, they will still be unsatisfied, miserable, even more then when they realize what they have done, what they are throwing away.
KK said that we are doing so much reading, discussing, analyzing and growing... we have reached out to find many resources. Our Hs aren't. So, even though it has taken us this long to get HERE, it will take them even longer. That is for sure, I guesss we figure they are there beside us with the knowledge in hand, when really they are at the beginning, struggling with themselves.
Step back, girlfriend. You have the Lord as your coach, listen to him and only him. Leave the battle plan to him.
Join the club! You've been here before Cathy, now, drop the rope and let God to his work.
