Inch gently backwards, and lower yourself slowly below the horizon. Very slowly and in the least dramatic way possible.

If you're lucky, she'll also be dallying with someone else (or have someone else lined up) and be distracted by that.

Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017