W took her vehicle to get an oil change and tire rotation today. She has always asked prior to this. Her vehicle isn't due it for another 4k miles (oil change) and 8k for the tire rotation.
She just texted and said "hey, I used all the money in the joint account for servicing the car".
My reply. "ok".
Money is tight right now and this is the button she is trying to push. She wants the anger to come out. Really, I just think its laughable as I think she is realizing she won't be able to keep the vehicle anyway! Don't care as long as its out of my name...
And thanks again for the comments.. Yes, she is going to try to milk me for as long as she can for as much as she can. That train has sailed... And the cancer thing, I just don't know what to say about that. I have stood by her through a decade of issues (gladly, frustrated at times, but stood by her!) and this is her comment regarding that.
Roller coaster crazy! This ride is not for me. I am going to sit by, DB and I will not be baited into anything. If she does ever decide to refocus, it will be a different world. I will not nor would I ever "hold" her current decision against her. I would rather put it behind us and move forward together. Together or apart, I am working on my stuff and making sure my kids are ok. As much as she thinks she has it together, I don't think she has come close to hitting bottom or crashing yet. I do not wish this upon her at all. If she thrives, I will happy that she is happy. I just feel it coming...
Hopefully a quiet run tonight followed by a quiet evening. Who knows.... I feel like a sit com writer putting out the teaser for the next episode.
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18
