I could still just have her mail them too me right?
Yes. Have her mail them. I can't believe you are actually asking that... You still want any purpose to see her... If you keep doing this, cycling, you will be in this spot a year from now... You will not have detached, and likely, she will end up filing anyway... See TATE's situation... and HaWho's on MLC thread... They were sticking it out, hanging on, but were left by their nasty spouses anyway...
