Thanks for the encouragement, doodler. Always a pleasure to have you weigh in on my sitch.

My head is on straight, I won't be tripping anytime soon. You may very well be right...I KNOW I am getting my b@lls back and gaining clarity. It's come a long way, and goes right alongside my detachment. I know my self-worth, I know what I deserve, and I know that I have an awesome life ahead of me with or w/out W. Much of my fear about everything is gone. I'm trying to build on this good stuff and keep moving forward. I'm not afraid of taking the steps I need to, just not always sure what those steps should be...

M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018