I thought about you all weekend. I am sorry that H is being a big-time alien right now. You handled yourself very well my friend. You cannot make his decissions for him, you cannot give him an "out"; it needs to be all him.
I'm curious: You say you are ready to move on: what would you do differently if you were moving on?
You're right: I think our H's ARE lost brothers. My H also told me (last time in Dec) that we should have a sibling for dd. Yeah right!!!
