A familiar story with questions. IV

[OrangeK]

Funny you say that! Early in my sitch I noticed that my W, when I did detach properly, suddenly would change in front of me. After weeks of not being naked in front of me on purpose. (SOmething I didn't notice until BD.) Maybe it was coincidental, but when I had been really diligent at detachment and did well and lovingly, she suddenly had no problem being completely naked in front of me. Maybe she didn't even realize it, and it was a subconscious "I need to hook him again" thing. Or maybe it was completely conscious.

For the weeks spanning Oct-Dec of 17' my WW did this also. She had shut down sexually but i noticed she was changing in front of me a lot more often than she had in the past, and she wasn't even living with me at this point. Just stopping off at the house to get clothes when she needed to, and she would often go there when she thought i wouldn't be home. Makes me think she took OM into our MB on more than one occasion. gross.

But i also wondered if the changing in front of me thing was subconscious or deliberate.