Cathy,

I think maybe your H and my H thought that OW would "fill them up" make them happy. And I really think the two of them are empty again. Your H is looking back at OW thinking she will do it...

You and I both know that they need to find themselves, and find that God shaped peg to fill that empty hole they have. Nothing else will fill them up.

KK said that we are doing so much reading, discussing, analyzing and growing... we have reached out to find many resources. Our Hs aren't. So, even though it has taken us this long to get HERE, it will take them even longer.

Step back, girlfriend. You have the Lord as your coach, listen to him and only him. Leave the battle plan to him.

Take care of yourself.


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.