Glad to see you come back to encourage these guys. Telling them to be the best version of themselves is advice that's often passed around......but I am having doubts that some men even have an idea of what it means. Especially those H's who have been M a long time. They seem to lose sight of that better version. Maybe you could give some pointers?

I think the best shot in the arm for all the guys here, is to see a man come back here to tell the others that they came through the fire as a better & happier man.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!