Ste7e, Thank you for these comments. It gives me solace to know someone else is going through the same situation. He actually texted me this morning, waited 2 hours to return text, sounded happy and content. Hard to not give details, but trying to follow the plan. I'm hoping he just needs to recalibrate, like you said.
Married- 1y8m Together- 7.5y M- 37 H- 31 S- 4 months not wanting to work on things bomb- 4/15/18 left home- 5/5/18 Moved in with OW a week after leaving