I just LOVED Snoddery's and Vinlad's posts to you!
Quote: Does he get happy? The answer is he will wear a mask that will give the impression that he is happy. He will go through a stage of euphoria for a period of time after he moves in w/the ow. Once the euphoria is over, things will begin to tarnish for him. He will still be out there searching for the elusive happiness.
I also knew this was coming eventually. But was hoping I was wrong. Your H has to go through all this crap and his journey. He doesn't "get it" yet. OH, but he will!
I now know that my H truely believes he HAS to go through with this D. I'm basically leaving him to his journey. And on the other hand, I'm choosing my own destiny!
He will not only end up disliking OW but hate her. Because she is forcing him into a life with her. God, these OW's are pathetic!
I'm here for you Cath! Always have!
But like Vinlad said, God has been preparing you for this. You you are now ready! You can do this! And we are all here for the support you need!
Let me tell you, no matter what your H tells you? 1) You are the greatest MOM! 2) You are a good wife! 3) You are a good friend! 4) You are a WONDERFUL person!
And don't let him convince you that you aren't! Because your H feels bad about himself and he wants to drag you down to his level.
Now, get on that horse! Even if it throws you off, dust yourself off and get back on. The ride isn't over!
