Yeah, the BIL thing screws everything up. Just my wife having affair with someone else is easier to deal with. This BIL and my sister were the go to family to visit. I almost get the feeling that everyone knowing what was going on was the last straw for my W...she had no reason left to stay...she screwed up my whole family and is now running away from it, leaving her mess for us to clean up.
My sister is worried about her marriage failing over this by what I can tell...and she should be. In some twisted way, she deserves better and I eish he would lose her over this. Then both my wife and he would be single but could never be together...not with any family member ever wanting to see them again. I know, twisted...
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues