I exercise often outside and am in great shape, work on the yard, and projects around the house. I try to spend the rest of my time with my kids. So GAL will take time away from my kids. My eife has complained in the past that I spent too much time out of the house...so some of my 180s were spending more time inside with the kids.
How about spending more time outside of the house WITH the kids. No need to involve the W. But aside from this, you need to have your own life. Heck just get out of the house for a few hrs, take a drive and listen to some loud music. Get her wondering your where abouts. You need to stop living your life based on what your wife thinks. BE THE BEST TATE. Geez i cant believe she is having an A with BIL, makes things so much more complicated. Heck, i dont even think i would want a reconcile from this, she is messing with your Marriage and your sisters.
You have gotten some sound advice from many here on how to proceed. I can understand that there is love for W and children, but at some point you need to start loving yourself.
I'm new here and my sitch is still fresh so dont take my advice to heart, just giving my opinion on what i feel you need to do. Keep your head up Tate
M:26 WAW:26 T:11 M:7 D:3 BD 1 10/16 I love you but not in love BD 2 2/18 I love you but... W moves out 3/18
