World is upside down right now

[Newly20]

Good job on starting the NC. At this point since there are no kids YET, it should be easier. Let him come to you, i can understand that lots of work is very stressful and the fact that a baby is on the way only adds to it, but i cant imagine why a man would want to walk out on you at this time. I know you dont want to hear this, but the probability of there being OW are very high. I know we always think we know our spouses, but the thing is these people are not the person we married. They are a completely different person and so unpredictable.

Your doing great with keeping up with your teachings and online classes. Go out with friends, I wouldn't follow too much of their advice though. They are not going to always be focused on saving the marriage which i believe is what you want. Friends and family in real life only want your immediate happiness and will tell you whatever it is THEY think is correct.

This is perhaps the hardest thing you will have to do, but you have a child on the way and that should be your strength to keep pushing forward. Take care of yourself physically and emotionally. You have a little one on the way that deserves it, if your H doesn't snap out of his fog then ultimately it will be his loss.