Really? Are you asking how to handle attention from an OW?

Enjoy the flattery and keep to your self. It may not even be real. Either way, who cares? Learn how to feel good about yourself regardless.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.