Well I received some quite flattering attention from another woman recently and it made me feel very good about myself. I am really torn here because I know for my own codependency entering into any new relationship is not the healthy thing to do. And I know if my W came back I would drop and hurt whoever I was seeing which is a terrible thing to do to someone else. I am just confused about how I interpret the advances from OW? How are we as DB supposed to deal with these types of situations? I am letting go of W and focusing on ME but what if focusing on me brings someone new into my life at this time?


M 40 W 34
Together 7 Married 2
No Kids
BD 1/18 need space
Moved out 2/18
ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18
W filed for D 6/18
D final 10/18