othstr I am sorry that you are here...My relationship with W has also been 7 1/2 years. She is also swamped with work and was doing alot of traveling before she left and moved out. She also said that there was no one else etc... My observation for what it is worth is that Workaholism is a very real thing and the stress of work commitments can make people feel overwhelmed and lose themselves. You as the spouse can be seen as the obstruction versus the work which is the real problem. My advice is DO NOT PURSUE do not call do not text take care of yourself! Give him the space he needs to recalibrate...it could just be that he is worn out and needs to recoup...and the idea of a child coming has spooked him too.
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18
