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As far as my sister goes, she keeps facilitating our families getting together. She makes plans with my W without me knowing. I dont get how she can do that...my W is trying to f### her husband yet she sets up playdates at her house.

Maybe her husband is f***ing both of them, and she's ok with that? SIL is now sister-wife? Stranger things have happened. In the end, this is about YOU and not your sister, so sitting there and going "hey, what the heck is going on here?" when you KNOW what's going on on YOUR side isn't exactly doing you any good.

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Yes, I am acting out of fear...my W has laid out a very generous visitation schedule...if we have to fight over visitation, I will come out with the short end of the stick.


The "generous" visitation you describe seems to be the Texas Standard Possession Order.


Just keep swimming