Originally Posted By: OrangeK
I looked into it and I COULD file a petition to request to amend the TRO or dismiss it. I know it wouldn't get dismissed, but i have considered petitioning to see if they can amend it to allow child drop offs between WW and I, so MIL can go back to her life without having to pick up her daughters responsibilities
(clearly that's MY Fault because i caused the TRO, but WW asked for it to be extended a year. *Please note my sarcasm here*)

Do you think this would appear controlling or pursuing?
I dont plan on using these meetings if petition was granted to do anything other than pickup or drop off my son. No ulterior motive here.





What does this accomplish? Are you intimidated by the MiL? I don't understand why it matters who you drop off and pick up your son from UNLESS you are just wanting to used pickup and dropoff to see your W. If I see that, then your W will see it that way.

I would fight the TRO on principle, not for any specific outcome. TROs are nasty on your record, and an active one limits you in other ways legally. So yes, file the petition but don't ask for a specific outcome. Especially the one you were considering, it would be seen right through.


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