Again, women marry a man hoping he will change, men marry a woman hoping she doesn't. We don't, they do. S*cks to be us.
Wow, I've not heard, read, or thought about it that way before, but that is almost profound. It was clearly the case with my ExW. Add in she was never honest with me about what she really wanted, heck not about much else either. But yeah, she hoped I'd change. I clearly was very very honest and forthcoming about who I am. I'm brutally honest and what you see us what you get. I did not change, but she did or decided what she really wanted was now going to be pursued. Don't get me wrong, I was a bad husband in many ways but wow your comment really hits home. Good stuff.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
