Got it on moving on. I know I am clinging on to my kids right now, not my wife...I have an overpowering desire to be with my kids every second. This unfortunately puts me at home a lot. And, yes, I went to dinner as a family because my oldest son wanted me there...I guess that was the wrong move.
As far as my sister goes, she keeps facilitating our families getting together. She makes plans with my W without me knowing. I dont get how she can do that...my W is trying to f### her husband yet she sets up playdates at her house.
Yes, I am acting out of fear...my W has laid out a very generous visitation schedule...if we have to fight over visitation, I will come out with the short end of the stick.
So, specific actions I need to take: do not go on any trips or outings with wife included, go out and do own thing...do not help wife with chores...
Ok, example event...sons school concert this Thursday...go on own, sit separate from family, do own thing after?
Another is this weekend. W wants to go out of town with kids to visit her mom on mothers day...stay home and do own thing?
Next weekend...go out of town with kids to visit my patents, exclude wife?
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
