Well I'm admitting my screw-ups, I want to also point out my well-executed endeavours.
W went to bible study tonight. Mines ended for the Summer. I took D15 for a long ride to listen to music and smoke a cigar.
When W came home at 9pm. The lights downstairs were off. I heard her call out expecting someone to be waiting up and welcome her. No welcome.
I was upstairs responding on here, to others threads when I heard a knock at the door. I said come in. She let me know that my windows and sunroof were open. I thanked her. I think she expected that I suggest an episode of a series that we have been working through before bed. I said nothing.
She also seemed to be trying to catch my attention in a few other ways.(maybe my imagination) for which I paid no attention.
From now on when she passes braless I will only make eye contact if at all, if you know what I mean.
Funny you say that! Early in my sitch I noticed that my W, when I did detach properly, suddenly would change in front of me. After weeks of not being naked in front of me on purpose. (SOmething I didn't notice until BD.) Maybe it was coincidental, but when I had been really diligent at detachment and did well and lovingly, she suddenly had no problem being completely naked in front of me. Maybe she didn't even realize it, and it was a subconscious "I need to hook him again" thing. Or maybe it was completely conscious.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
