RR- I guess in this conversation I let my emotions get the best of me. I felt I had to say it to show her she was not as invested in our S as I was. I guess Instead I should have used the opportunity to validate. Thank you for setting me straight!
The thing to remember LW is that she doesn't care. She is in hyper-selfish mode right now. If you could look into her brain she'd have thoughts like "I've taken care of H for X # of years, and S for 15 years, not it is time to take care of me!" WWs/WAWs are the most selfish beings in the universe. There is not guilting them into anything. They will never see it the way you do because of the fog.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
