I had no idea what a MLC was until now...

[Gordie]

Jase

I feel for you

Because my w has said everything your w has said

You are still relatively new to all of this

But it probably feels like forever

I was a slow learner

Whoch only prolonged my pain

And i know it is tricky with young kids

Your w is only thinking about herself

She told you that

But then you get frustrated and exhausted when she acts that way

Stop that and accept that

If you want to save your M you are going to have to be patient

But you do not have to put your life on hold

That was my mistake

How much time do you spend each day doing things for w

Do you do things for her even when she does not ask

And when you do she does not say thank you

Stop doing those things

You want to work more

But you are waiting on w to change her job

Why can you not just do what you want to do

Get after care or a sitter for the after school hours

Warning that your w may rebel against your independence

She may spew all sorts of crazy

But do not back down

Stick up for yourself

And what you want