IMO your W is too comfortable. I remember the end of last year and the beginning of this year you were getting great advice on how to handle your Sitch.
You taking one trip want shake your W out of her WWness. Because she stills know you want the M. You have to be done with her.
I Would of beat the snout out of my BIL. I'm sorry that's just me. But you are to tolerable of the entire Sitch. He's calling your W at work and then you call your sister. Put your foot down. Stop just going along with the entire Sitch.
IMO, your W probably sees you as weak, because you know what's going on and you haven't done much to try and change it.
Your W and BIL are being horrible people. I think it's past time they are called out. Stop trying to appeal to your sister, she is doing the exact same thing you are doing.
Grab your balls, stop worrying about your W reactions and start to move forward with your life.
So please don't take a trip to try and get a reaction out of your W it won't work. But when you start to love yourself and RESPECT yourself and take trips and GAL for yourself, it will make a difference.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
