hmmm...was just sitting here thinking. "Why all the secrecy in where my H is going, what my H is doing." Why doesn't he wnat to tell me where he goes? Even if H isn't spending time with OW, just where does he go and what does he do? He doesn't even talk about his drinking buddies anymore, or lately. And, that thought just dawned on me.
Why is everything such a big secret?
I remember when I was a teenager I wouldn't tell my parents where I went or what I was doing unless asked. And then not everything but it was more out of wanting to be independent. So is this part of the teenager in my H, the secrecy?
