Must Like Oreos - lolol! What a criterion. But perhaps what she means is - must like junk food and not complain about my unhealthy eating habits.

I took a peek online the other night but decided to shut my profile down again - I'm just to busy right now to engage in the whole process required. Maybe at the end of summer when I come back from a brief East Coast tour with my friend's band.

But I did notice a few things. It had been five years since I'd been active so my profile was pretty out of date - had to update it. And change my age ranges to comport with the change in my own age. And that definitely cut down on the guys available.

I'd love to meet eligible men more organically but there's nothing about my life right now that is conducive to that - in fact, I've only met one date that way since my divorce, and that was the guy who picked me up when I was shopping in Big Lots. So I guess when I am really ready I'll have to dive back into the online dating world.

As for your Friend With Benefits - is there some reason why SHE isn't girlfriend material, now that she's single again? Or at least take-on-the-cruise material?