Ginger

Ginger

Things are definitely different

We are much more independent of one another

We have different friends

We spend a lot less time together

W was a sahm and took care of kids and home

Kids and Home are now much more 50-50

We no longer share religious beliefs

W is more open about her negative feelings about life

I am a better listener

We separated finances

We no longer sleep together

More later

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving