I think Im struggling with the same recently

I am starting to see my kids not respect W much these days

Thats a hard thing to witness

I also tend to do whatever is asked and bend over backwards to accommodate and am tired of it

ive been thinking a lot about what buttrfly said about women not respecting men they can control

i was not one to be controlled until BD and since then thats all Ive been

No more of that for us Gordie

We dont have to be vengeful about it but we do have our own thoughts and opinions and they matter


Me: 45 yrs
W: 43 yrs
Together: 20 yrs
Married: 15 yrs
Son: 19 yrs
Daughter: 18 yrs
BD: Jan 2017