I turned her question around so that she would be the one to establish those boundaries and admit she thought it was inappropriate.
I am thinking this is the way to handle some of her questions about making friends, the definition of "just friends" or "something more". As the conversations present the opportunity, and she has pretty much laid out everything she believes is inappropriate in a MR.......then approach her about the OM. Entrapment? Sure 'nuff.
I think timing is important, so don't get in a hurry. I hope it can wait until she gets back from the trip, at least......but you'll have to follow your gut.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
